This week I went with the bucket list assignment. My summer theme of change/transformation and risk-taking seems to lend itself quite nicely to this assignment and really, I wanted to go back and really consider a few of my life's choices. This seemed like a great opportunity to do that.
So, I had a handy-dandy bucket list available. A few years ago, I stumbled upon on of those ridiculous FaceBook lists. It was a essentially a bucket list in which recipients were asked to identify the ones they had already completed. It was a nonsensical grouping of items. One of the really great things about being on social media for a good length of time is that is can serve as a kind of repository for these types of personal inventories.
So, I went back and, as I recalled, I found my own personal bucket list which I wrote on May 29, 2010. It seemed like a great idea to take stock now, six years later through this particular assignment which now may become a part of my own digital story.
Here is my list:
Sit on a balcony in a Tuscan villa drinking a lovely red wine with my husband and watching the stars twinkle in the sky (I have not done this yet--but it is still on my list today)• Wipe the tears from my eyes as each of my children marries the love of their lives. (I've done it once and let me tell you, it is a precious moment!) • Learn to appreciate a beautiful sunrise. (I am coming to appreciate the peace early morning hours afford me. There is a goodness in solitude which is hard to find at other times of the day.)
• Learn to speak Italian. (not yet and dropping off the list quickly. I think at this point in my life, being able to order a gelato in Florence is about as close as I am going to get!)
• Be able to retire knowing that I made a positive difference for at least one other human being as a result of my occupational labors. (I can check this one off. My career has been extraordinarily rewarding and wondrous!)
• Develop an observable bicep muscle. (Ain't happening--time to drop this one off the list.)
• Attend a performance at the Sydney Opera House. (This one needs to be moved up on the list!)
• Peer into the eyes of my grandchildren and see a part of me twinkling there. (Done and she's precious and definitely a part of her grammy!)
• Run a marathon (Time to exit this one off the list!)
• Take a trip on the Orient Express (Does it even exist anymore?)
• Write one really great piece of fiction. (Not the great American Novel—I’d settle for a published short story.) (I still want to do this--and now more than ever since I have developed a real interest in the power of our stories)
• Spend an unlimited amount of time in the Vatican—and it’s archives reading Church Historical documents. (How am I going to pull this one off--I would love to--I just cannot figure out how to make it happen)
• Swim in open water without worrying about the aquatic beasties waiting to make me dinner. (Time to remove this one from the list.)
• Learn to dance like Ginger Rodgers with my fabulous husband! (We are two willing, awkward, geeky people. Do you think we still could pull this off?)
• Worry less, enjoy more, love deeply, (I am definitely better at this than I was in 2010. I shall keep on moving in this direction more intentionally.)
I think I may see a great digital story growing out of this list--so I need to keep my mind on it as a possibility for further development. I was so glad to have found it in my archives which is a great reminder that our social media can actually become a repository of our shared experiences and narratives.